MARRIAGE

Date Night at Home | A Charcuterie Board

Some of my favorite dates with Mark have been fairly simple ones at home. In the years when our children were really young or our budget really tight, an intentional evening at home together after tucking the kids in bed was our salvation.…

Why Date Nights Matter in Marriage + How To Prioritize Them

I will be the first to admit, I am not always very good at protecting or preparing for dates with Mark, often finding myself at loss for ideas or in a rut or too tired to "get ready to go out" at the end of a busy day. But before we head…
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one equal temper of heroic hearts

I gave Mark a wallet for father's day in June with the last line from Alfred, Lord Tennyson's Ulysses, "to strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield." I might have inscribed the last seven lines, if it would have fit, and so I inscribed…
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Valentine's date night in

I love date nights at home. Honestly, I'd choose a quiet night at home with Mark over going out almost anytime. We started these dates when our children were babies and went to bed early. It felt expensive and tiresome to regularly set…
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Stay-cation

Although Mark and I try to have at least a weekend or two a year to ourselves, we generally go away for those days, holing up in a place where someone else makes our bed and food, and we can slip out of most every typical role and routine, parenthood…

Foundations

I remember the night you called me, your voice awkward and intentional, "I need to see you. We need to talk." I assumed it was the end of us, what little of us existed after a date and a smattering of lengthy conversations. I couldn't imagine…
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Date at Home | An Indoor Picnic

As parents, Mark and I have learned to be creative about our "dates." Every other week we have a legitimate night-out to ourselves, but between those evenings, we squeeze whatever random moments we can. Fortunately, we're both pretty…
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Preface

"This is not our home," Mark told the kids, pointing to the house we'd lived in the last seven years -- the only house they have known or remember. It was Thanksgiving weekend last year, and we were sleeping in the backyard, snuggled in…