FAMILY

Real Talk Real Moms | On Comparison in Motherhood

I imagine much of the comparison that happens between mothers begins simply and honestly, a way to observe and emulate other women we admire for one reason or another. We actually need one another in this way. We need other mothers in our…
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one equal temper of heroic hearts

I gave Mark a wallet for father's day in June with the last line from Alfred, Lord Tennyson's Ulysses, "to strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield." I might have inscribed the last seven lines, if it would have fit, and so I inscribed…
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printing childhood artwork + homeschool notebooks

Childhood art is magnificent, isn't it? Children have a way of seeing and coloring the world in the early years without the constraints of reality, without the pressure of perfection. I'm not exactly sure why or when the majority of us…
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cultivating kindness in children

A simple act or word of kindness can be a light for the soul, so can be a listening ear. From personal experience, the two are not entirely separate. During those playful and harrowing toddler and preschool years, it didn’t take long for…

the hidden gift of boredom

I'm not quite sure how or at what point the word bored enters a child's vernacular, but it has here. In the last six months I've heard the word more than ever, and I find myself sorting through reasonings, attempting to connect dots, as to…

for the weekend | ideas to celebrate Mother's Day

Mother's Day is this weekend in the US, and although it seems there is now a day to celebrate all sorts of things, of course this one and Father's Day feel most precious. As both a daughter and a mother, I love that we have a day set apart…
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on perfectionism, vulnerability, and motherhood

On the first day of this year, I woke up long before the sunrise, seized with anxiety. The same thoughts were spinning circles through me again, doubting my abilities as a mother and educator, doubting my work here, doubting whether I'm good…
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for the weekend | favorite books on parenting

Weekends are always the best time for personal reading. On Saturdays, I tend to stay in my PJs longer and often meander back into my bed with coffee and a book, a small gratitude with having older children. A couple of people have recently…